This wasn't the first time my girlfriend had tried to stick a finger up my butt, and it wouldn't be the last. I breathed. I'm a bisexual man, and I had bottomed once before with a man. We'd been dating for months at the time, and he was typically the bottom, but since I really liked him, I thought I'd return the favor. It was an all-around mediocre experience: I was too drunk, it hurt, I thought I had to pee, and I kept asking if I was pooping on him.
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2. There are official anal sex rules?
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1. I'm pretty sure the butt wasn't made to be penetrated. Is anal sex bad for you?
Use lube. You have no idea how sexy male moans are. Start out by using a finger. Go slow. You have to remember that. Use your hands or a sex toy to play with them, so that she has the opportunity to get off, too.
Also, it helps to work her into a frenzy with a little tongue and finger play first. If she seems to like it, then she will be more receptive to taking things to the next level. Start off by inserting a lubed finger as she is orgasming. This should intensify her orgasm and will make her more likely to explore more areas of assplay. AND also remember to use lots of lube when inserting anything into the anus.